Spare The Rod And Face The Music
Nowadays primary schools need Centres for Conflict Resolution, Anger Management Centres, Trauma Counsellors, Peer Counsellors… the list is endless. Whatever happened to the good ol’ days, when a child was a child? I mean look at me – I’m still bitter about the whippings and pinching I got from my Afrikaans teacher – I even despise my primary school headmaster, Mrs Ryall – she used to beat us up with what appeared to be a panga or a miniature version of a cricket bat. Looking back on those days I probably deserved it and it was probably for a good cause.
So you drop little Joey at school and later that day he comes back with a blue eye, broken ribs and a missing cellphone. You huff and puff and immediately call the school …
Pupils @ war - captured on cell
South African schools are alleged to be breeding some of the worst violent young brats – they were shown on the news bashing each others heads on toilet seats – I hardly doubt they were inspired by Yizo-Yizo as they were too young then + they’re aren’t a typical Yizo-Yizo audience.
It gets worse - parents seem to be blaming our schools for failing their children, and not the children for failing the school system – actually no, why not blame the parents instead?
It’s quite obvious – it’s the little Joey you never smacked as a kid. It’s the little Joey you defended with your nails and teeth to ensure that he would never receive corporal punishment at school. Little do you know that the little Joey whom you’ve just bought the latest PSP is a serial killer in the making and a hardcore primary school bully.
We teach our children the satisfaction of here-and-now and we later label them an instant-gratification generation. We buy them brand name shoes, clothes and top of the range cellphones – so they can MXit all day. It’s like parents are raising eggs, which can’t be beaten for fear of breaking them. I don’t know what’s changed but, its definitely not the schools – I feel sorry for the poor old Maths teacher who has to face a new viscous breed year-in and year-out.
Schools are not to blame – this is just a mere case of BAD PARENTING and the media must stop trying to push this towards government’s cause.
Beat the living daylights out of your kids – it’s a tried and tested remedy to put your kids on the straight and narrow – whether at school or at home.