God, i can't bear the thought of one day walking in a shopping mall with my husband and three kids...
Posted by Faiza Mallick | 24 Apr, 2007then seeing one or two or even three men that i've slept with...
personally, i'm saving myself for marriage... i know it's easier said than done, and i know this from experience, but it will be worth the while for me.
i understand that it's hard for people to save something as sacred as sex for marriage in contemporary society, but i do believe that many people do.
i don't have a problem with others having sex before marriage, i mean we all have our own choices and decisions to make.
i do however have a problem with people hopping around from person to person, i mean whatever happened to having pride and integrity? what do you consider yourself worthy of being?
and even if one decides to have sex before marriage, i do believe that it should still be with someone you really care about or preferably someone you think you love or you do love. i just don't understand how people can randomly have sex with strangers...
What if you u think u love many guys or gals? then u gana have sex with them all? did u consider that......
Posted by wildfire 10 Sep 2007, 19:44well, i don't know abput you and others, but i don't fall in and quickly out of love.
Posted by Faiza 10 Sep 2007, 19:44at one stage i really truly believed i was in love, but i realise now that it was just lust, i was blinded by charm, smooth talking and good looks. you learn not to be so naive and fall so quickly.
Hey I feel you on that one. Why do people have to make sex out to be such a casual thing? Although I did have sex before marriage, I actually loved the person. Sex is a very sacred thing and I am extremely frustrated that people have destroyed its value and sacracy.
Also, I cant understand why some girls have sex so randomly!! Dont they know that they give guys the impression that all women are easy?? Or do they simply not care?
Posted by Fellow sista 10 Sep 2007, 19:44i think a lot of girls jusy don't care...
Posted by Faiza 10 Sep 2007, 19:44and yes, sex is meant to be precious, why do we sell ourselves short by being so easy?
You know!what you are saying-ok-writting about is so true. I always thought I was the omly granny who believed that sex was for marriage. That was ofcourse until I met Mr charming and that was all gone.Even if I may have begun I still am with that One person as I think myself to be way too pecious to go and have sex with the first moegoe that comes along. This casual sex thing is a BIG no for me and always will. The question at hand is: Why do girls still do it?On you keeping it for marriage: power to you sister.
Posted by Ntosh 10 Sep 2007, 19:44I don't know why girls still do it. It's like they don't believe that they worth more than that. C'mon ladies, we're precious...
Posted by Faiza 10 Sep 2007, 19:44Let's not sell ourselves short, we should be proud of ourselves and our bodies. Let's not allow others to take advantage of us.