ZEESTYLER

 Power to the women of the world! Independent ladies! Career driven women! Stay at home mom?? Nowadays the craze is to encourage women to empower themselves, to reject the traditional ways of the past where a woman’s main role was to supply and act as a nurturing figure in the home: caring for her family (being at the beck and call to both husband and child) and doing everything with a smile on her face, permanently fully energized as if her blood was pumping red bulls. That was the way of the past.. Unfortunately, dependent on the reader, in today’s time for a man to expect that of his wife, especially in the developed world, he would be labeled a male chauvinist pig. But to me one can not blame a man to expect such things from his wife, especially when he has grown up in a household where such expectations were met with no objections. Obviously there are exceptions where I do feel that the situation is not so unfortunate. Such as when a women has no say in the matter and is forced to do things exactly as her husband demand.. a dictatorship style home instead of a democratic home.  My question is how the new world responds to women who are keen on the traditional ways. Staying at home, instead of having a 9-5 career, wanting a big family of say six children and caring for them herself.. not allowing a nanny to witness the memorable moments of her children such as their first step or first world. But wanting to be there herself: Moments in life that no amount of money can ever replace.   I am such a person, the things mentioned above is what fills my heart with joy; it is this that drives me to want to live. Not to drive a fast car and have bank loads of money, yes such a life would be enjoyable but it lacks the real joys of life. I desire this life but at the same time I do not intend on sitting back waiting for it to happen twiddling my fingers. Education is of utmost importance to every person that sets foot on this earth, so that is why I am at university. I don’t want to be completely dependent on my husband, but knowing he can supply for the family is a comforting fact.   So would this pro-feminism world accept a girl like me and my way of thinking, or would it frown upon my actions and label me a deserter of women’s independence a back to front kind of girl.     http://plato.stanford.edu/entries/feminism-topics/definition of feminism

 

SOME TIMES WHEN THE STRESS OF LIFE STARTS BOILING UP TO A POINT THAT I NO LONGER FEEL LIKE I CAN HANDLE IT..I THINK BACK OF THIE DAYS WHEN I USE TO DO TAKE MY FRUSTRATIONS OUT IN QUITE A DANGEROUS WAY.. cutting.

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Why do people smoke? Addiction? Ego? To fit in? what is that causes so many to start smoking and continue doing it for so long when all the health warnings are made visible to people?

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so is manto a thief? a drunk? these are questions that the public deserve to know after all she is our, South Africa’s, health minister. but answers is something that we are not getting!!!

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Word and video footage of two teenage couples having sex in a local shopping mall toilet has spread rapidly throughout South Africa. Graphic footage showing two couples in one cubicle having sex (SIESSSS!) has outraged parents throughout SA.

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You know that feeling when your tummy has been invaded by thousands of butterflies and you no longer feel the floor when you see a certain someone…that whole floating on your way to cloud 9 typa thing..well I am officially experiencing exactly that: I AM HOPELESSLY IN LOVE! (More)

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So Im walking up the steps on my way out of the caf, to walk straight into a friend of mine who also does rel1003. I have just calmed down after realizing that I have an extension on my English essay so I’m under the impression that “everything is going to be just A-Ok” EXCEPT my world comes to sudden stand still when I am informed that our wiki site AND all our blogs have to be up by end of term which is….freaken TODAY! SO WTF!!!

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ALL OF THE ABOVE SYNONYMS FOR THE GLANDS THAT HAVE DEVELOPED ON EVERY WOMANS CHEST: BE IT BIG OR SMALL BREASTS ARE BREASTS. YET THERE IS A BIG FUSS OVER THE SIZE OF THESE GLANDS THAAT ARE UNIQUE TO WOMAN..AND THOSE FOUND ON MEN ARE HIGHLY UNFLATTERING AND MOST UNATTRACTIVE. WHAT MAKE IT SO APPEALING TO THE OPPOSITE SEX, AND WHY IS THE SIZE OF IT SO IMPORTANT?!

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being 18, 19..an so on, people think that we have our whole lives ahead of: catching on shit thinking that we have so much time to make things right, fix all the wrongs we have done. but recently i have had many eye openers; Things that hasn't happened to me personally but has had a lasting personal affect. We’ll never really know how long we have left on this beautiful earth

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being 18, 19..an so on, people think that we have our whole lives ahead of: catching on shit thinking that we have so much time to make things right, fix all the wrongs we have done. but recently i have had many eye openers; Things that hasn't happened to me personally but has had a lasting personal affect. We’ll never really know how long we have left on this beautiful earth

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if one compares this generation to those in the past, what impression does it create for you. personally it scares me, and i am even more afraid to consider what the generations still to come are going to be like. (More)

thanks to george.w.bush... will there ever be an end to the war in Iraq: and why in the first place does America still have troops fighting there?!

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ever felt an inexplicable pain, unable to find the cause of it, one that makes your entire body ache. with me: majority of the time it was an emotional pain, the pain of the heart is far more painful than any other that i have experienced. and allowed myself to experience the same hurt, or an even worse one. why is it that so many of us allow ourselves to be constantly hurt by others, people that we think we love?

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